Ask the director

Posted

Question:  Why do we say kaddish for parents for 11 months rather than the full year? 

F.G., East Greenwich

Dear F.G.,

The maximum 12 month purifaction process of a soul, which was derived from the Talmud, was only required for individuals who were totally evil. Based on the belief that no child should ever have to acknowledge the possibility of a completely wicked parent, Rabbi Moses ben Israel Isserlis, a great scholar in the 1500s, as well as several other scholars of that time, shortened the required period of saying kaddish for a parent to 11 months.

Questions are welcomed and encouraged. Please send questions to: ShalomChapel@aol.com or by mail to Ask the Director, c/o Shalom Memorial Chapel, 1100 New London Ave., Cranston, R.I. 02920.