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QUESTION: Why do Jewish people have closed caskets at their funerals? 

J.S., Warwick

Dear J.S.,

There are at least a couple of reasons for not having an open casket at a Jewish funeral. One reason is that it makes it easier to remember the appearance of the deceased as they were during their lifetime, not as they have been dressed for burial.

Another reason is that Jewish tradition regards it as incompatible with the principle of showing proper respect for the deceased. For example, once the Tahara  (purification ritual) is completed, the mace (decedent) is not supposed to be disturbed in any way.

Some rabbis suggest that opening the casket would be considered disturbing the mace and therefore disrespectful. Other rabbis state that the casket can only be opened at the funeral home and then, only for the family because they find comfort in saying their goodbyes privately, and anything that helps a mourner get through the grieving process is a mitzvah.

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